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Step 3: Talk about it.
Unless he is a complete idiot, he is aware this would not make you happy. A man committed to you would rather lose his arm than cause you despair. This may also be a sign to you that you are a lot more invested into him than he is into you. Is he really your boyfriend or has your imagination carried you away in this relationship? They keep these secrets because they fear your emotional reaction.
They are pacing the relationship in their own minds to a degree. Bottom line here though is this.
At this moment, today, right now, you are most likely more invested and farther ahead in this relationship than he is. This will only put him on the defense and he very well may play the blame shifting game as in make you feel like crap for snooping in the first place. Managing your emotions is something that you will be glad you did later down the road as opposed to going bat shit crazy on him.
Consider how you discovered this gut wrenching piece of information. I am not on a dating site, even though it appears I am. When you find your boyfriend is still on a dating site, you have two choices really. You can confront him or you can downgrade him and pull back from the relationship. Then shut up and listen. Not with the ears that want to believe, but with that gut! He did it on his own and problem was resolved with no drama.
Step 2: Admit defeat and cut your losses.
If he gives you any lame excuses. If a man is still active on a dating site, his options are open and you options should remain open as well. That is what we call mirroring a man. Listen to these two classes to really deal with this the Goddessy Way: Even when he has claimed you verbally, your job to observe never stops. Katarina always says to be always on the same page as him at all time. Start your rotation up, start dating yourself.
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Downgrade him and continue on with your Merry life! I read all of your posts. How to handle when they contact or do you allow them to contact for silly things? About two months ago I met this amazing guy as I was taking an attachment at a certain hospital. At first it was hard to connect but then we did connect.
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We had a lot in common and never ran out of stuff to talk about. We were always together most of the time and never got bored of each other. That is maybe because we are both playful. I went to hospital to keep him company. I lost track of time n it got really late.
He was busy when I realised how late it was so he asked me to be patient and offered to take me home once he was done.