Poor guy dating a rich girl

Its not the amount of money she earns. Anyone can earn money if they put their heart and mind to it. Its the class they possess as a result of their privelaged upbringing which attracts me personally. And no amount of money or drive can buy that. You either grow up with it or you dont. I've only had two liters of Bombay so far today You seem to be winning.

This is just silly. You're implying that there is a ceiling to a level of class someone can have based on the conditions they grow up in? Take it from me here. I used to date a chick, in no small part because she was a Sweet Briar alumnus and thus had a decent amount of "prestige" cred. It wasn't even close to worth it. Instead look at what someone brings to the table Look at it this way: Those can more than make up for what a girl brings to the table money wise.

The girl I married grew up in a family that went through some hard times after her father came down with a medical problem that left him unable to work. As far as her level of "class" she's in an entirely different league from almost all of the girls from elite east-coast schools that I've met. I've never once had to make excuses for her conduct, whereas with every girl who had the "prestige" that the OP seems to want in a girl I eventually found myself having to repeatedly explain why said girl was acting like a bitch.

I guess I somewhat appreciate the conception of assortative mating. Marriage is more than just love from my perspective. Just to add one more thing. I think girls coming from a background of poverty are not shameful, but girls hoping some wealthy men will take care them are pretty hateful. Therefore, being independent while not being materialistic is very important. From my perspective, love is not just the only concern for marriage It is not only about a couple but also about two families. As long as my parents appreciate the girl, I don't care whether or not she is poor.

Anyway, I do come from a upper or upper middle family, but my parents did suffer in a condition of poverty back in the old days. My dad just got his multimillion US dollars by capturing the upward trend of China's economic growth in the past twenty years. Hence, I do have lots of relatives that are poor.

The jerk off OP won't find a real wife. I'd find a woman with a humble background who is now successful than one who is successful because she got everything prepared for her and shits handed to her all life. It is true in many ways, but I think it is not always the case. Plus, money makes anybody greedier in general. That's why the rich goes on to be even richer. Anyway, it would also be least likely for me to marry a poor chick. But for different reasons that you said. The most important things for me is: The drive to succeed.

If she is poor but determined to success through hard work, she's good to go. The same goes for if she's rich but wants to be rich through her own hard work, not his father's.

She sees value instead of price in things. I go for real connection with somebody that is actively working, wants to be working, and wants to have a future together full of love. A lot of women in the workforce that are attractive are looking for a paycheck so the ideal women scenario you seek will never pass you up because their will always be somebody with bigger pockets trying to flash cash in front of her. If you are dating outside of college you find the dating pool shrinks, and the opportunities to establish a real connection with somebody diminishes.

So, if you are outside of college and working a lot when you find somebody you are attracted to and have a connection with go for it. You don't want to pass the woman of your life because you are worried about one of your bullet points on your long laundry list of what a woman should have.

If I do hit it big and can afford my woman to stay home I would honestly do it.

I see plenty of PM, traders doing the same, but I see that they married somebody with a alot of college debt from a fancy college. Having a lawyer, doctor or somebody uber successful as your marriage partner complicates thing. A woman earning more then a man in the relationship has its own dynamics. Well i am poor myself which it would Not matter for me, and with so many very high maintenance independent very spoiled and selfish women that very picky too certainly tells the story which many of them Are these days.

So many women these days are very high maintenance, independent, selfish, and spoiled which is a real turn off for me, and i would certainly rather be with a poor woman that could love me for who i am since they certainly would make a much better wife too. A lot of these comments are ridiculous. I come from a poor family, and my soon-to-be fiance come from a wealthy family.

I'm glad my girlfriend doesn't judge my upbringing like all the people in these threads. IMHO, its more impressive to have drive and work your way up, than be born with a silver spoon, and I'm glad she sees that. Anyways, my parents would never ask me for money, nor would most lower-middle class parents. They worked hard and are proud people, just didn't make much money. The concern that women from poor families would have families siphoning money off you is ridiculous.

I'm sure it happens occasionally, but it's not the norm. I'll buy my parents presents and such, but I spend about the same my friends spend on their rich parents. You are they type of prick that makes everyone hate us - bankers. For me you people who talk about poverty only know monetary values, and not worth. Where would you be if war broke out and the money you own isn't worth more than toilet paper. How about if you had to live off the street because the house's we're all blown to bits. All of your cars couldn't work because, money could not buy fuel to run them.

Those poor guy's would share the little they had because they know how it feels. I know you mean rich guys would hold out the little you have until you had nothing but you would expect the poor to give you what they have because you simply think you are entitled to it. What about the opposite? Would marrying a rich girl with inheritance or contacts help the man who marries her? What if you found some woman who you don't like and aren't attracted to who has that stuff. Would it be easy to use her for her money and contacts to move up the ladder then divorce?

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I just realized what it meant. Can't believe I am that fuckin stupid: You can tell a lot about a person by what their job is: She more than likely is smarter, will be more fun, and will want to get out and do something with herself instead of just sitting around and living off you which in turn makes her WAY more interesting Now of course if I'm just out for a good time well then I don't give two shits about what she does. Hedge Fund Pitch for Interviews.

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However, you are still going to die! Jul 22, - 1: Jul 22, - 3: Jul 22, - 8: Jul 22, - 9: Jul 22, - 4: Jul 23, - Jul 24, - 9: Jul 24, - 1: I'm sensing a little judaism in the op. Jul 24, - Aug 6, - 4: Aug 6, - 3: A wise man will only date a chick who falls into 3 categories. Hedge Fund Pitch Template. I want a lady on the street, but a freak in the bed, Go Bucks!! Aug 10, - 2: Rich or poor does NOT matter. What matters is 1 If she she loves me regardless I am rich or poor.

Aug 16, - 1: Currently under review for Senior Monkey position. Will networking with alum help any? Sep 27, - 4: Hi OP, just stopping by to say that we do exist. Dec 11, - 4: Sep 27, - Sep 28, - 3: Another thing which I think makes me slightly out of the norm.. Jul 9, - 5: Jul 10, - Jul 10, - 6: Mar 10, - 5: Jul 11, - 8: Jul 11, - 9: She'll have to sign prenup I would never marry a girl from poor family. Jul 11, - 1: Only on a finance forum would you consider money factors like this so closely.

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Texans are good too. Aug 27, - 9: Isn't that the case culturally for all Latin American countries? As for her being feisty, who wants a boring chick anyway? Aug 20, - 9: Jan 30, - 2: The jerk off now hates himself now for having let a prize like me slip through his fingers. Jan 30, - 6: Short answer is yea. Feb 10, - Feb 20, - As an engineer, If I had a partner that has parents that are struggling, I would work through a logical algorithm: Feb 10, - 2: Feb 10, - 4: Could give her more drive, though if she comes from nothing.

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Jul 14, - Jan 20, - 5: Jan 20, - Jan 21, - Jan 20, - 9: Jan 21, - 1: Jan 21, - 3: How did OP get SB's for this post? Jan 21, - 4: Jan 21, - 5: The same goes for being rich. Feb 14, - Good luck, and remember you don't find love - love finds you. Feb 15, - 8: Feb 21, - Jun 4, - 4: Jun 5, - 1: Jun 5, - 4: My moms side of the family siphoned away money from my dad like it's their job lol. Jun 6, - 6: Aug 21, - 5: Tell me how does anyone define " poor chicks"?????? Sorry, you need to login or sign up in order to vote.

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